EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries Part 2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Your real message would probably be: "H, it is OK for you to move out as long as you continue to act like my H."

quote by oldtimer...

For me, my real message would be.. It is okay for you to "act" like your single, and I will not expect you to act like my H in any way, but when it comes to sex with OW, unless you've given me D papers, it should not be something that I should have to accept as part of the S deal.

However, being a christian, I believe that sex is for M, and therefore, your H should not be having sex with OW while he's S from you because you are still, in fact, M to each other. This would really apply if he never had a PA with that OW.

On the other hand, who knows what frame of mind your H is in, whether it be an MLC or what, so you just have to do what you think is best to try and save your M.

I felt that God called me to be the best W that I could be, even though my H was not being an H to me. I even told him that. I said that I was going to love him the best way that I knew how, even though I despised what he was doing (the PA) and believed that it was against our M, against God and against the Law for that matter, but I knew what God wanted me to do. I just wish I could have been as strong willed as you with the STDs part of it. I even told him that I wasn't going to have sex with him because of it... but it didn't last long. ugh. I'm so weak!!!!

Anyways, I hope your MC went well, and you have lots of good news. If not, don't let your spirits get down, there are still lots of good things going for you and your M! Patience Patience Patience!!!!!