Just want to tell you that my H was going to do the separation thing for a couple months to see if any feelings were left (told his friend this), but it never really happened. I did go back home for a month at his request to sort things out, and after that we've been back together since.
So, I think yes, this is a good time to DB it. His feelings don't matter, cause love is a choice. He can't see that now because of the OW. And I think he's showing anger because he knows he can't be with OW like before, so he may even feel resentment towards you. But you just hang in there. Ignore his meanness, it will happen, and it might even get worse, but you can do it. Don't let him pull you down. Your hapiness comes from you and the Lord, not him.
okay, I'll talk later... good luck, stay strong, I'm still praying for all of you!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
