EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries Part 2

[NikB]

Ellie,

Thank you so much for your quick post.

- Haha I like the Fatal Attraction reference. Since it was only one day I’m not going to worry about it for now (don’t really want to give H extra reasons to talk to her, have her get emotional with him, etc.). I’ll think about it if the drive-bys continue though.

- You’re right… I had TOTALLY forgotten the getting mad/stop making me love you thing!! Argh, how did I forget that one? Oh well, no major backslide, but I need to keep that in mind.

- Darn it on the dinners out… you’re probably right, but I will miss that so much!! It’s one of the things we always did where we really connected. I keep forgetting I need to say “bye” to that relationship and those people. I may still try once in awhile but only if he’s in an exceptionally good mood before we go. If he’s wavering back and forth, I’ll find a way to bow out.

Love your response on the lingerie! I grew up very afraid of anger (not due to violence or anything, sometimes I feel I was born this way!). I am learning to get better about seeing anger as just another emotion, but I guess I still have some of that fear inside.

Thanks again!