EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries Part 2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Wow. you've got some great and crazy info in those last two posts.

That's wonderful that your H is sticking to his word, or at least we know he is trying to.

I would encourage you to continue with the dbing of not bad-mouthing the OW. Even though your C said to be mean to her and you don't have to pretend to like her or whatever. I would just try to keep any convo about OW as limited as possible, and say the least amount possible without bashing her. Because even if he seems like he's "out of the woods", he's still in their, and anything you say will cause him to defend her. Plus, we want your H to figure all that stuff out for himself. Us telling our H's what we think, and the reality of the sitch won't get thru to them. A man has to figure stuf out on their own.

I don't know where that came from, but anyways, I felt like I needed to bring that up again.

About the OW at your house. THAT IS TOTALLY CRAZY!!!! I would be dying laughing I think. or scared.
That just makes me feel so good for you. But just be careful, because maybe she is starting to get jealous, and now that he's not hanging with her like before, she's gonna want to step up her "chase" even more. So beware.

You just keep being the best woman you can be!

What is that concert all about? I've never heard of it.