EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries Part 2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I agree with everyone too, it sounds like good progress to me.

I would also want to ask MC about wanting to cancel. You are definitely not out of the woods!!!

Yes, my H was extremely depressed after they broke off (for like 1 week if that) But I never knew about that dopamine sp? rush, so that makes me feel better, especially when I've seen the girls stupid naked pic and she looks like a playboy model- yuck. need to get that mental pic outa my head.

Definitely keep the DBing up and all that mysterious stuff going, act like your dying to get your hands on him, etc.

In my opinion, I don't think he's totally thinking he wants out of your R. I think he's in a position right now where he feels stuck (this is so much like where my H was, but his EA was a PA) and thinks things can't get better, but you will show him that it can. It happened to me, and can happen to you too. You'll just need to give it time, it took my H a few months before he believed my changes were real and that our R could be better than it was.

good luck to you.