Wow, lot's of progress here. The main thing is to remember that OW was only one part of the pic. Keep doing the DBing and then H will see you're the one he wants. It will be normal for H to go thru a depression at the cut off of their relationship. Don't take that personally. As kml says, it's a brain thing also. So keep doing your DBIng and detach enough to not take his moods and feelings personally. You have issues to work out still, but rome wasn't built in a day. Slow and steady wins the race, girl. Not trying to be a wet blanket, b/c this all sounds pretty wonderful. Just want to remind you how hard you've worked and to stay focused on the principles that got you here. Julie
