EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries Part 2

[NikB]

Thanks for your thoughts, Stilltryin! I was excited about the ski thing but not necessarily passionate about it. Some of the reason for it is definitely looking for an active thing that H and I can do together - he has a lot more interest in it than I do but I am starting to think if he's so adament about NOT wanting to do it with me, maybe I should find something else. He likes bike riding too... I'm less excited about that but could try it out. My true love was always horseback riding and I'd love to get back to that, just for me. H doesn't enjoy it at all, but it would be a good solo GAL activity for me. I'm just having trouble finding a place that works w/people with muscle issues (lots of places for kids, but there aren't many for adults).

My real H made an appearance again last night and it was so nice. He not only showed up at the bank he was there EARLY and upset I wasn't there yet. I guess he forgot about my MC appointment but I called on the way back. He sounded mad when I first called but I reminded him where I was coming from and he immediately softened and said "Oh sorry, I forgot about your appointment" - so that was good. Of course he asked me what happened and how it went and I did tell him a few things - his mood went from iffy to really bad, he went out for about a 15 minute drive, and then got home and was like my old H again. Very strange but I'm not complaining! He made a fire, we watched a movie together, he was very affectionate... it was soooo nice.

I've got one other post to reply to and then I'll post my MC update. It was a REALLY, REALLY good session. I want to post the details so I remember and also because I think it may help others. I love the MC... she is so good.