I'm just a newbie here. I read your thread with great interest since my H and I are in repair after a whole heap of stuff went down last year MLC and EA with a work friend. I read through part one and now this current thread and honestly girl I have to say that it sounds to me as though in your relationship there is no 'boundaries' with how your H interacts with OW. There are three people in your marriage.....H, you and OW....now how is that supposed to work? You freely admit that your H is having an EA with OW....so when does that become unacceptable? When the EA turns PA? How do you know that hasn't already happened? Is EA more 'acceptable' than a PA....to me an EA can be way more damaging. Why are you being a doormat and letting your H carry on an EA with OW? You have very few boundaries as far as I can see.....OW is an intimate part of your H's life and your life....like I said there are three people in your marriage. You deserve way better than that, why can't you see that?
