EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries Part 2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Don't really know how to help you on your new goal. My H wouldn't ever talk about OW unless I asked.

I think that it is normal for you to feel how you are right now. Because of the great weekend you had, now your mind is thinking all sorts of things, and you also have to make sure you keep detatching because what if it was all just meaningless (which I don't believe though) and you don't want to set yourself up.

Also, I think it might have been okay to say to your H.. "Then do you feel that you are single?" without sadness or emotion but just so you understand HIS situation better. Not sure if he would have answered truthfully, but anyways, since you were already on the subject, I don't think it would have been bad to ask that, as long as your reaction wasn't biting his head of if he had said yes, or crying, or whatever, but just validating only.

Well. I think it was also okay to request him to not go alone with her, but don't expect on the results being exactly how you asked. Unfortunately, he's in a different state of mind, and just isn't seeing thru the fog yet. I know, it's like, how retarded, blind, stupid are you!?! Don't you get it?!??

Just concentrate on GAL and try not to think about the sitch, you are on a rollercoaster and are going to have feelings go up and down, it's only normal.