Anniversary tomorrow(9/24).

Lets see, how shall I play it? I will get something little and put it in his studio. Won't make a fuss of any kind. Let's see if he says anything.

You might remember this is also OW's birthday.

Yesterday, H was really stressed out and took it out on me. Later, he went out of his way(sought me out) to appologize several times.

That's a baby step.

He also mentioned that we were much more mature now and we could find better ways to circumvent the miscommunications that we have. Wow, I've been saying that for years now. When I would say that he would just say."No, we are just too different. We have different styles"(as if that explained why according to him, we can't EVER communicate).

So many baby steps.

Still sleeping in the studio though. I wonder if I am destined to lead a celibate life? sigh, that is just not me.


Hi Leighann,

Thanks for the info on Retrouvaille. When will they ask him whether there is an OW? Is it during the weekend or before?

For some reason, I just felt like November was better also.

Thanks for posting to me.