Wow. I am really so jealous right now. My H has only said "you are so gorgeous" in those exact words to the OW, which I read on one of his texts, and that word has never been used in a sentence with my name in it. I know I am lucky too, and you might be jealous that I've got my H back already and your still in the sitch of getting yours back, so I appologize for bringing it up! shame on me.
I am just really proud of you. Do you see how confidence changes a man's view of you? His friends obviously saw the change in you, and it wasn't just a physical change either, they saw a change on the inside. You just keep thinking about that night and whenever you feel down about yourself go back to it!!!
I found this page online and thought it might interest you. Although it seems geared towards a woman having an EA, but it still works the otherway around.
One thing that I started doing to my H, was sending him very provacative pics of me to his phone.. he loved it. It sounds like maybe your H was really missing out on the "sexual" part of the R. not just sex, but you initiating, or flirting with him, looking sexy, etc. Doing those things is a big ego boost for men, and it makes them feel loved. That For Women Only book talks about that. Have you got a chance to read it yet?
Anyways, I hope you have a great Thanksgiving, and you just continue your confident sexy appealing self!
I also feel sorry for the OW boyfriends wife...what a feeling that must be for you too, thinking, gosh, I could help this woman out but then what will happen in my R. Have you ever met the boyfriend or his wife?
talk to you soon
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
