HI, I was doing a search about Retrouvaille and your thread came up. I really hope you get to go in November, as you said you had to reschedule. I went to one weekend in January but my husband decided after one post-session that he did not need to go anymore. The weekend was helpful though-it gives a chance to bring up a lot of issues you might not otherwise get a chance to talk about. I know the program is basically the same no matter where you go(I live in RI and went in MA) so you will probably feel comforted when you hear different people's stories. I did. My cousin and her husband introduced me to Retrouvaille because they feel it saved their marriage and brought them back to the place they were when they first fell in love. I hope it works for you! However, your H will probably be asked if there is anyone else in his life and be told the program cannot work if there is. And from your post it looks like there is an OW. So maybe you are better off going in Nov and not now. Good Luck!