Quoting hoping:
I stood there fighting tears...

Should I have said I am sad when you leave, or I would like just a tiny hug??

I have read dr, but somewhere someone has to make the first move, and I know my h, and that is not his nature to initiate the first move.


Dont ask for a hug, or a kiss, or for him to tell you ILY. I know you want to and it IS hard...but in my experience, completely counter-productive!

And HE has to make the first move! That is crucial. Actualy, it is also false! You have aready made the moves you need to do, now you dont even have the ball anymore...It's in his court, and is you try to take it away from him...again, counter-productive!

BTW...how ya doin'?

Steph