Just to let you know-its not my H nature to make the first move either. He NEVER has. It's not until I totally stopped doing ANYTHING that he started. It took about 2 weeks. He finally figured out that I was not calling him or making any move towards him in any way. I think it freaked him out. Its so not like me to do this. This is what Michele is talking about in her book. He LEFT. Leave him alone. Completely. Start thinking about you and stop thinking about him. He will notice you have changed. If you don't change, neither will he. I know its scary and its hard but if you really want a chance, this is what you have to do. My H is pursuing me like crazy, and he is NOT the type at all. He knows I've had enough and I've started living a life that does not include him. He decided he did not like it much I guess. Good luck! Rachael
