LL, why is that I can't or won't see these same signs that you guys here always seem to point out? I really probably have a vvery different kind of r with my h then most that I have read.I see more and more the kindness in his heart that is what attracted me to him in the first place. I just don't know what is so heavy in his heart and mind. I think it is the fact that i thought he was having a. Of course he would be hurt, but he knows the way he handled the ff hurt me too.What if we really don't have anything in common, that worries me too. We might just have thought we were in love, first for each, married, had kids..now they are grown and low and behold we don't know each other. What if?????So many thoughts to sort out.I am trying real hard to hold on to the little things that I am seeing. Sue
