MC appointment for Dec was uneventful. More about accepting the OP for who they are and letting of resentments. The main point was about moving forward and changing the attitude in the household and doing more positive things together.

I said I was going to cut back on working and tidy up my work area in the basement. I also said I have given up on some parts of our R because wanting that area to improve and it hasn't, is unproductive and is wearing me out.

As with most religious based MC I suppose, faith was discussed more than anything else.

Lou