Lil Lou, you might look into iTunes. I downloaded and installed it Lil. I was playing some songs on my computer using my old Misic Match Jukebox program and something went out so now I don't have a anything coming out of my PC speakers. This was before I installed the iTunes software. Oh well, nothing out of the ordinary unless the problem is in the motherboard. I have to get out my cheap speakers and see what "does" work.
The Myers-Briggs personality test www.HumanMetrics.com. did that Jungian test measures extroversion and introversion. OK John Gottman, author of 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work. I have it, and read the book
They point to the law of entropy, which says that things tend to spiral down into chaos if there is not a conscious plan for growth That is what is happening even with the all of the things I have done. I see that me making the plan and BB making her own plan is one problem we have.
“My Point of View” is a very specific skill to dialogue on any subject more completely. That plan sounds good when two people have similar goals, views about a subject. Definitely worth doing LostGal.
5. Stick to the issue, but go as deep as you can about how it affects you. That my dear is a challenge. One that I have trouble getting BB's to do, stay on the subject without bringing up what happened in the past.
(more information on their work can be found at www.intentionalmarriage.com). He is a member of the steering committee for the LDS Marriage Network
I am not LDS, but live around LDS people. I see their faith and doctrine working for them. I have visited their local temple before it was dedicated. I work on some of their printers but don't believe some of the details of the religion. Like other things, I do use what seems to work for me.