I guess I have not done anything special for me, I may go shopping this weekend, but i am trying to not spend money as before. H did call me again today and asked me to the James Bond movie, after he dropped me off and came in to say hi to d, he left and I said"I had a nice time" he just smiled and said"It was a good movie"I said "I mean with you I had a good time". He knew that's what I meant, as he smiled as he left. We do not talk about r. Will I know at what point to bring it up?? My friend at work said what am I going to do if 3-4 months from now, we are still at this same level. I said I don't know. She said she would need to know answers, intentions. I said I have learned that you can't force those or a time frame. Non Db don't really understand what we are doing. Anyway, tomorrow night we go to our video club. Oh. also the ff friend called me at work and asked me to go to craft show next weekend! I said I would, I have to make the effort to understand her, although since she has new mf, she doesn't rely on my h. I guess I don't think she does. H seems so relaxed and happier when we are together. I am glad I did not call him this week. Sue
