On your thread you said you didn't know what the equivalent condition would be for a woman to a mans ED, try vaginal atrophy. Can't get it up VS can't stand to have something put in it. That coupled with R and attitude problems, I don't know what to do some days.
I was glad to see all of the improvements in your life and was impressed to hear about the religious activities and work your bf is doing. That type of activities seem to build bonds with most people.