Lou, I have yet to have this happen, yet I can see that it might have great benefit. Cinema said something similar I think at one time. I think Michele has advocated something similar. IF you can sit down with your spouse and study someone's suggestions and CALMY discuss it together, picking it apart and commenting on it together, it will yield insite to eachother and likely bond the partners together in doing something constructive together to fix things. (rofl, I did read this and desided not to edit it. How many times can you use together in 5 or so lines? I guess that is the problem in the first place, hu?)

Isn't Altruism nifty?

Ok, I have learned things in my readings and am glad for that. Trying to apply it at the correct time is difficult still.


Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay