Quote: but are unsure of HOW to fix it...so they wait around and WE must begin the healing/fixing!
BINGO!!!! they are very unsure of how to fix it as they think they have tried and tried already not realizing those cheeseless tunnels they were running down... we have been given a guide however we came across the db book we have a knowledge that they do not, we read what they will eventually figure out on their own. if we let them.
and yes we MUST begin the healing and fixing of OURSELVES, that is our part what we should have been doing all along in our lives...by beginning to heal and fix ourselves we become better people (or in some cases regain the person we let go in marriage) and better able to participate in a healthy r whether that be with the was or another.
