Quote: He so willingly hugs others, and used to me,that I just ache for that..In time..
I understand how you feel sue....once my h left the I got not so much as a peck on the cheek never mind a hug...at our sons b-day pty and then at any other occassion where there was family or even my friends... h would greet them with a hug and kiss on the cheek...it killed me... after our dd's b-day pty my mother, a few of my friends and I were on the deck... h was leaving and hugged and kissed all of them.. I got tapped on the knee and that was the most contact from him in a long long time...
part of why my h didn't want to hug me is that he didn't think i wanted him to... you are right in that it is to soon for you right now but take a look around at some of the "successes" (i'm not there yet but you can look) and see how bad things were at one time...and see that things turn around..
