that aproach doesn't sound all that different from db, being a friend, being respectful....
it will be difficult to be with out h in the home.... I do not know about "helping" him to move and making his get away nice nice for him with pics for the fridge and lamps and what not. is not how i would be but then our sits are different. I let h take care of his own stuff as he was no longer planning to be here for me. LL
