Husband is moving out today, son is going to help. D has still been very quiet, which I know is to be expected. They have to sort through their feelings. SIL called and asked if I want to go shopping, so guess I will, this is harder then I thought, I was going though some pictures last night of kids when they were smaller, would it be stupid to ask h if he would like some of them to put on his refrig.? I have continued to read the book by John Gottman "Seven Principles og MAking Marriage Work", and am going to ask h if he would take it and read it when he feels ready to. It has a little different approach then DB,I highly recommend it.He sayd the myth of communication is important, but you have to be friends with spouse and honor and respect them.Just learning how to talk to each other is not the answer.He also encourages talking and thinking about the past, all the good things that brought you together as a couple. Well worth it.I hope I don't get shunned on this board for saying all that, but sometimes looking at another approach is not all bad. More later, just neede to vent. Sue
