Just an update, worked with MIL at church, she walked me out after and said she hoped we could work it out as she doesn't want to lose me as a member of family, said h told her we were still going to "Date", and if I will let him he will stay over occasionally!!She said if you both love each other then you can work it out, I said(hoping she would tell me more of what he said) that I did want to work it out, but was not sure of his feelings. She did not say anything either way. Went wth him to store to get a few things, he did not get too much, looked at tv's. I said we don't have any extra lamps, he knows I have wanted new one, so said he would take old ones and I could get new ones. I sked if I could take his explorer and run to mall or would he like to go(He has not been to a mall with me for along time), he put his shoes on and went.We did not find any, none of the chain stores seem to sell them anymore. It was kinda strange riding that far, I tried to make small talk, wondering if he was going to open up to any r talks. None, and I did not either.
He sure does not seem to be in any hurry to move.I had sked him a long time ago to let our kids know far enough in advance, and I really did not know if that would matter to him, but maybe it does. ALso d b-day this week and I told hom I had read that moving out at a special time in your kids life, that they would remember that the rest of their life, so maybe he is holding back till after that.I don't know what to think. I am going about my life as if. Sue
