Quote: I must be a pleaser, don't want anyone to get mad at me, so I do whatever.
I tend to be that way... until my c told me about my personal account... we must do what is right and please us, trying not to do whatever, even if we doesnt want to do it, only bc we are trying to please everybody... thats include your familly, your h, your child... We tend to forgett our personal account... Yes there are some changes that can please them and us too... in the past i use to eat my nails, i had horrible hands... when my h left home, that was one of my changes... now i use long nails... i dont dress like a hooker, but now i use smaller baby dolls bc i feel great using it...!!... now i enjoy a lot staying in bath long time applying creams in my face , my body... now i share more time with my friends... now i can refuse doing a favor when i cant, now i know i can please everyone if that doesnt please me...!!... We need to growth a little our selfish behavior... like them...!!.. Dont do changes bc him, do that changes that please you... at first some of them will sound strange for you, but as time pass, you use to that... remember, is your personal account... he get in love with you the way you are right now... maintain all the beautifull things you have inside, and gain that things you will please to gain...
