I just can't believe some of these situations where WAS expects LBS to sit down with the OM/OW and have dinner together. Just unbelievably disrespectful.

Personally, I'd find somewhere else to spend Thanksgiving. Maybe other Family, Friends, etc. Don't let her get away with this. Let her know you disapprove and are not going to cooperate with that arrangement. It's just to bizarre a situation for me to even contemplate.

Hey, I know, go enlist the services of a prostitute and ask your W if it's OK that you have her over for thanksgiving dinner.


"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain