Andrea, thank you for your response, but I don't understand when you say that you don't' want to give me hope. I have much hope from what my h said. He talked to his mother last night and she said that she hoped we could work it out. I have not been sure if my h even wanted to work on it, but I now know that he must.

I just wish I knew how to start communicating with him, oh I can talk quite a bit, but that is not what I mean. I thought I was good at expressing my feelings, but I get a feeling from h that I am not responding back, yet I don't know what to say.
Sue