just thought i'd add, though my children are young only 3 and 1, h never once told son the truth always said he was working and asked me to do the same and could not understand when i just wouldn't say anything but daddy couldn't come over tonight. so because h never told son, son now thinks that daddy lives at his office. you know what maybe my h should live at his office. I'm angry, sorry! getting tired of the up and down that has become my life, i knew i wasn't happily married but at least i knew i was married, now I don't know and it sucks!! LL
