when my h first moved out (to his parents) I was at first in shock and then denial acutally dbing before I knew what it was, that was when things were at the best during the sep, it was when I started to think it may be permanant and started asking him to come home that i freaked and got all a mess and cried to him and all that, which as you know only serves to push them away, when I finally stopped bothering him, he started to want to come home.
so point I'm trying to make is this, it may take time, he is not saying that it is perminant, give him his space and work on you, get comfortable being you with you so that when he does come home you know who you are and what you want. sometimes in their being gone you realize all the things you complained about really just werent all that important.
take care and know that when you feel alone at night you are not alone there are alot of us here for you!!
