Just an update, h has been calling me at work last few days, has things to ask me, not just for hello's. Asked if I would go to football game tomorrow night with ff, as her son is playing and she did not want to go alone and see soon to be ex there. H also said that she was not ready for her son to see her with the new mf.So,she does have someone else.hmmm...it may just prove to be that I have been entirely wrong on what I think has been going on. H has been coming home early all this week, talks more, jokes more.How do I not blow it??I don't want to push anything on him. I was going to ask him for a hug, but I feel like that might signal to him that i am getting too close, yet what if he is waiting for me to make the first little move. It is too confusing, yet exciting in some ways. He was telling me that he would like to go with our church youth group into Chicago in a few weeks, and I would have used to sound sad, or let down that he would want to leave me on a Saturday, but instead I said that would be great. So small steps. Sue
