Just an update to our day, went to church, then we had to run an errand before going to church friends house for parade. i asked him again where the apt. was that he had looked at, and he drove me past it!! It looked kinda yucky.But then they are so expensive, as much or more than our ouse payment. He really had no more to say, so I backed off, no more questions. When we were walking to friends, i was asking him about ff divorce and problems that she is having with her h, and my h seemd very calm to talk about it, and I genuianly listened with no judgment as I would have used to do.There is a certain length of time that you are married and then when you are ss age, you get part of h money(I told him about a case in court where the couple were married 1 week short of this time frame, and held off having judge sign divorce decree so wife could collect this $) That is sad. Rest of day went great, we have so much fun with all these people,the one friend knows some of our sitch, as does the pastor, but I feel comfortable around them. As I said earlier this week, h seems more at ease after talking to pastor.I keep praying each night that he won't leave, but also ask for strength for both of us if he does. See ya Sue
