LL, yes he is a good man, has never had any history of hurting anyone, especially me. Do i believe him? Deep down I do, but then I can't let that be enough because I think he would not be doing all these things if there was not something else occuring. I think I am going to call our c and go talk to her alone. I asked h if he thought we should go again, and he said maybe later on. He really seems to need the space, but I think he is afraid to make the big move,and it is a big move to set up another house hold.
Andy-Thank you sooo much, you have a way of putting things into perspective. It all seem so logical, except I hate to admitt I don't understand that "I'm either part of the solution or the problem" Sorry!(can anyone tell me how to use the graemlins and quote) Sue
