hey andy, thanks for your take on my sit, I believe you are right in what their r was, but it was deciet and they both knew it, even conspired a lie together for me. yes h now wants the real r he had with me (or to start one) rather then starting a real r with her, possibly what made him come home was her telling her h she wanted out of their m, a bit to real for my h. I am trying to move on but need help keeping my mouth shut about ow. could you stop by my thread on newcomers and offer a bit of insight. current thread "new attitude"
thanx LL
sue, I do believe andy is right in what ow is to our h's. LL
