LL, I know I can't stop him, he finally came home this a.m. at 6, I went down to ask if he was ok, and what happened. he said he had too much to drink at bowling and when he took her home, he got sick and passed out on sofa and woke up at 6!!!!Now, I want soooo much to believe him, but does this sound a little fishy to you guys? If he did not seem so genuine in his openess about her calls and going to"help" her all the time, I would not have a doubt that he's lieing, but that is what confuses me so. he has had many chances the past year to just tell it all to me, and I would have gladly sent him on his way then. He has gotta be in mlc. This is not the same person I married. Sue