Quote: This morning, he wakes up and tells me, "you do realize that if I leave you for OW, I am going to wind up cheating on her with you." What kind of BS is that? But I honestly believe him when he said it, but I definitely will try to seduce him, because I'll want him back.
I can relate. If my divorce had gone through and my husband had hooked up with OW, or started a new relationship, I'm pretty sure he would have had an A with me. Because this is a man I've loved for more than half my life, it would probably be the one instance where I'd break my rule against As and have one. Sometimes there is just too much connection and attraction. Even when he was involved with OW he couldn't completely stay away from me (and we both did try!).
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
