Wow, I am sorry to hear about your situation. But everyone brings up very valid points. My H and I are 6 months post my discovery of his 2 year A and we still have strong feelings for one another, sleep in the same bed, live together and just came back for a 4 day weekend together, but the trust is gone.
We are and have been thinking about calling it quits. This morning, he wakes up and tells me, "you do realize that if I leave you for OW, I am going to wind up cheating on her with you." What kind of BS is that? But I honestly believe him when he said it, but I definitely will try to seduce him, because I'll want him back.
My H and I have been together for 16 years since we we both 19 and raise to kids together. We have a connection that we both know is undenialable, but rebuilding trust is hard especially since he still works with the OW and she is dying to marry him to start a family of her own.
So be careful- I believe the W did you favor. They probably still both want each other. But had difficulty reconciling.
Taking it Day by Day. There's gotta be a light at the end of this dark tunnel.
