NikkiB & Heartbroken - sorry to threadjack, but I went online to look at that book you recommended and I bought... I am on the fence so to speak because of a WAH... Anyway - Nikki - wanted to thank you for the advice. And heartbroken - I am so very sorry you are here... At least your H admitted it... That is the first step - my H has never admitted to a darn thing...
