New day, new week...H was quiet and distant yesterday, when we got home from church "she" called, needed to talk, so he went over, I asked if he was staying all day to watch football, he said no. So for a few minutes after he left I panicked, thought right, we'll see when you come home, then I found peace in my garden. Cleaned the weeds, etc..He was only gone an hour, I did not ask a thing, but he was quiet the rest of the night (of course he is not usually a talkative person anyway)but I would guess something she said had some affect on him. Today we are both off work, but he went out to do church finances, it is still pretty clear that he does not want to spend time with me, and is not ready to recommit to this m. But I will continue to be patient, and kind, I just question sometimes how long can I do this??? As long as I still see some improvements, if he starts withdraw and slip backwards, then I guess we have to the or talks. We have not been back to c for 6 weeks, and I don't ask him anymore why. Before he said he just didn't have time to think about it. I might go myself and touch base with c.
Hope everyone that is off work today, can enjoy!! Sue
