Yes, h is that way with anyone who asks. We have a single, 40ish, new Pastor at our church,shes great, have done some social things with her. She has asked my h for favors, they have gone out to lunch. I have no problem with that. He would do anything for anyone. It's just that I don't trust this other chick. But is that my problem or his? How can I demand that she is off limits? If I reversed the sitch and it was me, first I hope I would respect his feelings and cut some of the ties, he does not think it should be a problem.If it were me and om friend, and my h continuelly nagged or implied more, I would be angry and resentful. It is so hard to know. If by including me more is his way of showing me reassurance, then I have to trust him. Most of the posts that I've read are pretty cut and dry with the affairs, and that is where I don't fit in. I don't have hard proof,or confessions, so what do I continue to do? Start to follow him, accuse, assume, or trust until I have reason not to.It can drive you crazy at times. Have a great weekend, all!! Sue
