sit sound sim but in reverse, I did not know of my h's friendship with this woman until he was seen with her, when i discovered the friendship, (using my moms advice) I asked h to invite her and her h here, he said ok, I didn't follow through with that though. ow's h knew of the friendship, my h even apparently picked her up for lunch once while her h was at home (laid off) with the kids. they were just friends, my h was being a support to her (she has cancer boo hoo to her, sorry I know that's not very christian of me) because for some reason her h wasn't. well well well the story goes. I doubted it because of the way my h is with his other friends and even family, he is caring and giving, but not there for them in the way he was/is for this woman. I questioned it and made h question it. the ow claimed they were just friends, even when my h had moved out, wasn't until months after my h said the d word that she decided to d her h and proffess "feelings" for my h. in my sit, the ow, was nice to my h, did something nice to help him out (called other customers when they were ready to drop him over billing issues) it is possible that your h and this woman are just friends, but if it is a friendship that you are uncomfortable with, then i would keep a close eye on it, accept all the opportunities you can when you are invited to spend time with them, but know that people are very good actors and can hide more from you than you'd think. never trust a woman especially a drunk woman on the verge of d who's spending way too much time with your h. LL sorry to be so neg just being realistic, look at h's other friendships, is he there for them in such a manner? LL
