KAW your words always lift my spirits, except we don't snuggle. I won't make any moves towards anything, as I am afraid it will push him backwards. I did ask him the other night if I could give him a kiss, he said ok. Whoopi-I wanted him to grab me closer and just hold me, but no. I know I sound like this is the most important thing that I am missing, and in some ways it is. He was the touchy one, and I do miss it. Eric,that is one thing we don't do enough, spend time doing things we used to do, time is so short, I think I will suggest something.
LL, boy does it all sound familiar-I won't ask him to give up this relationship with her, or I know that it would send him out the door. That sounds weak on my part. He has actually included me in stopping by her house to watch football on Sundays, asked if she and her mom could come along to the movies. They never act as if they are into some hot A, just as friends.She has had many problems, alchohol the main one, and she is very close to her own D, which scares me to thinking that is what they are waiting for, I sometimes plot it all out, she gets D, he deiceds to leave home, lives with her, divorces me, m her!!!Then I wake up to what I hope is just a foolish nightmare on my part.My h is a very generous person, and he likes to help other people, so when she calls and needs his help his is willing, and if it were anyone else, I would not have such a problem. Thanks for the words of encouragement. Sue
