Hi Sue

Quoting hoping:

I still don't understand why he lost all his affection for me, and as he said in c , he wasn't sure either.


Sue, Just an Idea, I read some where in a book to list activities that we did with our spouces when we were dating.
Then try to do some of those activities again or something similar.

There is a good chance that those original activities will hold a clue's that may help.