I all most blew it, I woke up very early and was re thinking h outing last night, and decided I nedded to let him know how I feel about this one on one time with her. I had it all planned what i was going to say (or should I say how I was going to "attack" him) I finally got a grip and calmed down, fell back to sleep and woke up ok. I am not going to say anything.That is partly why we are in this sitch. I would just dive in and let him have it, in all the wrong ways. But can I say anything at all on how I feel???He never seems to want to hear that either, evwn when I have tried to calmly let him know. I don't mind him going out, but not just with her and for 5 hrs drinking when she already has an alchohol problem, really bothers me.I just don't want to set us back to the old ways of talking or should I say not talking. Sue
