Went over to h co-workers house last night(not "hers"), but of course she was there. Found out co-workers w thinks the same thing about "her' that I do!! She has not latched onto to him as much as onto my h, but this wife is disgusted with her too, hum...maybe I am not so crazy after all. Of course "she" was dead drunk, and we were suppose to give her ride home, but she decided to spend night there. Wife was real thrilled about that. I think "she" kinda ticked off my h as she told them to leave the room, that she was talking to someone else! Being the "men" that they are, and to show how she controls them, they left the room and came back in where the wife and I were. Maybe they will see she is not so pretty all the time.
Steph,thanks for the response, I guess I really needed to hear from someone else that an a is not the only reason we are dbing. I really believe that my questioning him all the time about this is what got us to this point. While there are many strange things about this ow relationship, a part of me does not believe that he is in a pa,yet I don't trust her, she is weak, demanding, needy,getting d, and that might look good to a man questioning his m. I am trying real hard on the trust issue, I wish he would just say that there is nothing to worry about(like he did 2yrs ago when she started the latch on, and I kept pursueing and quetioning)I look back now and wish I would have found this board to deal with all of it before it got to this point.
Bonnie, my H never left, and no one knows about our problems, so I have not heard that, but within the last 3 yrs as all of this has been evolving,and I was at a weak spot, I asked him if he wanted to still grow old with me, and some day enjoy grandchildren together, he said yes, and I heard everyday the ily, and to have that change in the course of days does make you wonder. I do feel things are slowly changing, very slow though.
