Hoping, My H has never had an affair either. But he left, so right there the mistrust sets in. I am sure all you family and friends that mean well have said, "no one leaves something for nothing." NOT True!! I have a lot of mistrust in my H. He promised he would always love me, he promised we would always be together, he left our family...so of course I am thinking what else??? You msut be true to yourself and your H. When the mistrust starts to pop-up try and look at it rationally...I know easier said than done!~~Bonnie
