Bridget, Thanks for the list of "don'ts". It is so hard not to blow up at these times, but I have found out that I have been wrong in my suspicians, so I am grateful that I did not. I don't know how much to say, while I have never proven and h has not confessed an a, there is a very close connection with his friend. I have gone with him to her house, we have socialized together, I have never seen her goo goo eyes with him,she is kind to me, and I try in return.So my sitch is kinda weird, I have read so many posts that tell of the healing and piecing, but there are usually affairs involved, at this point I can't relate to this, and I am not trying to block it. I have snooped, asked him if he is interested in her, talked about it in c, given him every oppurtunity to confess, and nothing. So why do I think there has been something??? I am working on that through dr, and this board.
