Rachael: Because you use to enter my threads you know i felt that R conversation need days ago, and i ask him to do that... I feel better now after that talk... but the importance is that i ask this talk not to get any answer from him... not to claim or ask him some actions to do... I ask this talk to express myself, to comunicate him what i feel... because i think comunication between a marriage is so important to go forward... I remark that... i dont push you to do anything or to be like anyone.. i dont push you to answer me anything... I just comunicating you what i feel and what i miss... what are my needs and my fears... and my hopes for the future...!!... I think i get from this stronger to him... and stronger by myself...!!... So... stay in mind maybe he cant give you the answer you are looking for... or maybe he will answer you anything, but only actions can show you this words are true... Sometimes answer from them is not what will resolve our feelings, although in that moment you will feel relief...