I forgot to ask my question - how long does one wait without hearing from their spouse before assuming the worst? These past 6 months went by pretty fast. In 6 more months, the bill-paying funds will be depleted, assuming the house and cabin don't sell, which is very likely.
I think if he does surface, more money will be forthcoming, but I can't depend on that. Looking for a better paying job. I would have to make twice what I make now to afford the house.
So, if I don't hear from him, what are the chances of getting access to his accounts without a death certificate? I hate to think along these lines, but I need to look out for myself.
Deb
Joy and Sorrow...when one sits alone with you at your board, remember the other is asleep upon your bed. ~Kahlil Gibran
Me: 46 H: 45 Married: 5.0+ years Bomb: May 17, 2006 0 living children, 2 babies in heaven 1 dog, 2 cats
