Tomorrow will be 6 months since my husband disappeared. For the last 2 months, I have not heard a peep from him. I have only an email address - he is either not opening or not accessing his email. The cell phone of his friend that he is sailing with is not accepting calls. Can't even leave a voice mail wishing them happy holidays.

They have had plenty of time to cross the Atlantic. Commerical sailboats take about 2 weeks to cross. I do not know their destination. I suppose it's possible they landed on the African coast and do not have Internet access in the remote villages.

I am assuming that no news is good news??? If something horrible happened, I would hope that his sailing buddy would have the sense to contact a relative. But what if both of them got swallowed up by the sea?

Before they left on the trans-Atlantic trip, I did make the mistake of mentioning that his Mom wanted to know his agenda and that if he cared about us he would give us more info. Probably not a good idea, huh?? So, now I think he is purposely staying out of contact.

Happy Holidays!! He proposed on Thanksgiving and on Christmas Eve. But, I am taking much needed vacations on both holidays to treat myself.

Deb



Joy and Sorrow...when one sits alone with you at your board, remember the other is asleep upon your bed.
~Kahlil Gibran

Me: 46
H: 45
Married: 5.0+ years
Bomb: May 17, 2006
0 living children, 2 babies in heaven
1 dog, 2 cats